Talk Therapies asked me the other day
“How lucky are you?”
Well, so are you lucky? – Do you believe in luck?
I’m a pretty, ‘feet on the ground’, type of gal and have always believed in a good work ethic as being prime to self-help, however, I think timing has an awful lot to do with your success.
So is timing; luck, innate knowledge, or good planning?
Again being pretty practical I would say a dash of all of the above:
Looking at the people who have been in my life I have noticed that some people do seem to have good things come their way more often than others. Whether it’s winning competitions or raffles, good board games/cards or just has cool stuff happening to them.
What makes that happen? Luck? Timing? or Knowledge?
According to Talk Therapies there have been several studies on this and the findings all seem to point to one thing…
Taking a chance!
“People who appear to be lucky tend to be more social and are open to opportunity. They
tend to be more optimistic people who believe that good things will happen, so they take
a chance. The more chances you take, the more likely you are that some of them will
Of course memory plays a neat job at making lucky people luckier too, because we all tend to not know about, or to conveniently forget about, all the failures that led to their lucky streaks.
Perfect examples are celebrities who have suddenly “arrived” (not)
It took them plenty of hard slog and refusals to get there!
Talk Therapies has a good little test you can do “Imagine a friend that takes a chance every day. Maybe one in 10 of those will pay off – so that’s about 3 good things that happen a month. Now think of a friend who only takes one opportunity a month – they may only have one good thing happen all year. It’s about the same ratio of good to bad but one friend will seem a lot luckier, particularly if they only tell you about the good things that happen.”
“So, if you want to be lucky, say yes to every opportunity that comes your way
who knows where it could lead.
I say Yes to that, ‘with knobs on!!’
My latest opportunity is, amazingly turning into something I only dreamed about
Yes I’m working at it but nothing is passive unless you’re dead!
But it is giving me a great opportunity to have a decent retirement income, I couldn’t be happier!
What can you say yes to today?
Go on – Be lucky!!
You never know where it could lead.
Go well till the next time